decision making.

sometimes, Allah pushes us to our limits. it's because He has greater faith in us than we have in ourselves.  hence, no matter how painful and stupid your decision has been made, as long as you can stand the consequences, it means you have made the right choice.  if not, raise your hand, berdoa to Allah insyaallah you will find your way. :)

the 'when' things.

when you constantly can’t stop thinking of her. when you wait for her to go online or when you wait for a phone call or when you wait for a text. when you see something and it reminds you of her. when you talk about her to your friends, a lot. when you start to read over messages, saved conversations or you replay moments of your life with her in your head. when you realize that when you are out, you look around to see if you accidentally bump into her. when you realize your friends get sick of you talking about her. when you listen to songs and you think 'this was our song'. when you go somewhere and you reminisce on what happened there with her. when you think of her before you go to sleep. these are the 'when' things, you know you have fallen for her.  

                                                                                            were it so easy meaning?

never let the fear of 'what-if' stop you.

when it comes to relationships, people are always so scared of the what-if's and they forget the what-is. they spend so much time thinking, 'What if I get hurt?' and 'What if it doesn't work out?'  they stop thinking about the things that are already real. 

they forget the good feeling they get when the person they love tend to spend time with and the excitement that rushes through them when the phone rings because it might be the person they are waiting to hear from. never let the fear of what-if stop you from letting yourself take a chance on love...because "what if" this is the person you're destined to spend the rest of your life with?

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along the way, I've learned that you can't let anyone in too far and you can't trust endlessly. the biggest mistake you can make is to care or love someone more than yourself, because then you are just setting yourself up for disappointment. boundaries are necessary so that you can protect yourself because once you're broken, you'll never be fully fixed.                        

forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you.

chances.

so here's a piece of advice:   let go when you are hurting too much, give up when love isn't enough, and move on when things aren't like before.  yeah because, surely there is someone out there who will love you even more.  don't waste your time giving someone a second chance, when there is someone better out there waiting for their first.

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Kadang kadang kita lupa. Kita leka. Tanpa kita sedar, hati dia terluka. Kalau boleh nak sangat aku putar balik masa supaya hati dia aku jaga sebaiknya. Kalau bedaya aku ingin kembali pada mulanya kita bertemu. Aku ingin kenal hati budi mu sebaiknya. Kecewa bila tahu aku gagal.

Naluri hati ni kuat. Buktinya sekali pun berjuta kali aku tekad nak pergi, sekalipun aku tak sanggup nak beganjak apatah lagi pergi untuk selamanya. Harap jodoh kita kuat. Harap hati kita kuat.

HARAP KAU ADALAH UNTUK AKU SELAMANYA. *ANGAN-ANGAN JA YANG AKU MAMPU

Kata aku

Kata orang,

"Jangan terlalu cinta kelak nanti memakan diri"

Maaf, kata aku,

Sekali aku cinta, selagi cinta tu setia, sampai mati aku cinta. Biar tidak sempurna dimata yang lain asal cukup sempurna di mata aku. Dicintai dan disayangi adalah anugerah terindah yang Tuhan berikan padaku. Andai Tuhan memberikan kesempatan untuk aku hidup lebih lama, biar lah aku laluinya dengan dia.

Mungkin ada yang mengata di belakang,

"Ala, time tengah hangat bercinta memang macam tu. Duk sayang sana sayang sini, entah jadi entah tidak"

Maaf sekali lagi, 

Hati ini hati aku. Aku sorang yang rasa. Biar aku cuba pertahankan sehabisnya, walau akhir nanti semuanya mungkin hilang. Walau akhirnya mungkin sia sia, aku tetap akan berjuang hingga saat terakhir hingga sudah betul tiada harapan. Sekurangnya takkan ada rasa sesal kelak sebab aku dah cuba sehabis baik.

ps : Orang yang duk kutuk pasangan bercinta tu kalau dia yang bercinta mesti lagi meroyan kan?       

BELIEVE.

This life is what you make it. Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always , always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, right? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”   :)

Manusia Biasa

Bismillahhirahmanirahhim.

Ya Allah kuatkanlah semangat hambaMu yang lemah ini.

Sesungguhnya banyak cabaran yang Kau berikan kepadanya semenjak dua ini.

Amin Ya Rabillalamin..

Don't Say

Was wasting my time online, and suddenly came out with these words. 
Not sure whether it could be a song tak, but the lyrics are something like this:

you told me you don't feel important,

don't say that baby, no no you can't

no one is ever as meaningful as you are,

never thought you could feel that far.

I don't need lots of things, even if I'm poor,

but one thing for sure,

I need you, just you, that could cure,

all the lure and make me feel secure.

don't say, baby don't say

if it continues, then it may

don't say, baby don't say

stay strong and let it fade away.

we have each other,

we could go futher,

go through one after another,

oh let's just be together.

there's no point of being strong

if you're not there to hold me on.

i've been waiting for someone like you all along.

and i present you this song.

don't say, baby don't say

if it continues, then it may

don't say, baby don't say

stay strong and let it fade away...

Goodnight.

Define Love?

The thing about being love is, we learn a lot of things together. 

We grow mature together.

 Making mistakes will always come in the way, but the way we handle it and learn from the mistakes made, together, that would made u even a better person, a better partner for each other. 

Each party will learn to improve in every angle day by day without realizing it. The bond of love will be even stronger when things like this happen. Then, one day, when u're both old, and all is good, you'll look back and smile to all the things that had happened, together, and thankful for the bond of love that had been created. That is pure. 

Keep fighting for that one love you think that is right. Never be a loser and give up.

Love.